A Brother and Sister’s Love and Bond

I took an adorable picture of my oldest son with my youngest child, his little sister. He was holding her and she gave him the biggest hug. I knew I had to capture the moment. This picture inspired me to right a poem about not just their bond but the fears that I had about having a child with a disability who was so much younger. This is a poem about a brother and sister’s love and bond.

The Poem

In the quiet corners of a parent’s heart,

Fears whisper softly, tearing apart.

A journey unknown, with challenges embraced,

A child with Down Syndrome, love interlaced.

Born 11 years apart, 

His worry was felt during the mending of his sister’s heart.

He has sat through many appointments in the doctor’s office,

Cared for and held her with such great cautious.

Mom wonders, Will the age gap be too big for a bond?

God says, Fear not, to his sister he will be oh so fond.

Look beyond the worries that cloud the view,

To the laughter, the joy, so pure and true.

He didn’t want her dolls in his room,

But every day to his nook she will zoom.

Not bringing a purse or bow or doll,

But taking his book or his sock back down the hall.

His sister having a disability, would he be ashamed?

He is the one she will live with he has already exclaimed!

An older brother with love profound,

Guiding his little sister, joy unbound.

With patience as his compass, kindness his guide,

He walks beside her, laughing at all the fun she will provide.

In all the moments of life, both big and small,

He treasures the magic, embracing it all.

Through challenges faced, a bond will ignite,

A love that transcends, their future is bright.

He’s a guardian, protector, and friend,

Their journey, a story that will never end.

What’s Next For a Brother and Sister’s Love and Bond

To conclude, it is natural for a parent to worry about their other children when receiving a disability diagnosis. However, it is my hope that this picture and poem can help ease some fears for others who find themselves in a similar situation as us. Down Syndrome does not define our daughter or our family. To be sure, a family’s love will always prevail.